As you’ll learn in this chapter of my book ATTRACTION is about TENSION and seduction is about building and releasing that tension through resistance. Here are some links that support the concepts explained in this chapter:

Attraction, Tension, Resistance, and Push-Pull:

How To Create Attraction With A Woman (Article)

Natural Sexual Tension (Article)

How To Trigger Deep Level Attraction In Women (Article)

What is Resistance in the role of seduction? (Term Definition)

What is Push-Pull? (Term Definition)

Sub-Communication and Attraction (Video)

What Attracts Women (Video)

Bad Flirting Example (Video)

Signs She’s Into You (Video)

Flirting Mistakes (Video)

Flirting Game Example (Video)


The Power Of Your Attention (Inner Game):

Deepak Chopra: The Mystery of Consciousness (Video)

Transcendental Meditation Military Summit: Resilience, the Brain, and Meditation (Video: 1hr 41min)

Use Your Brain (Video: 1hr 34min)

How To Remove Negative Thoughts And Tame Your Monkey Mind (Article)

Anthony Robbins – Discusses Focus (Video Clip: 7min)


Ignore Your Genetics:

The Triune Brain (Video 7min)

Women Discussing Man Grooming (Video)

Talking To Strangers (Video: 13min)

How To Talk Like A Man (Video: 3min)


Ignore Rejection:

Dealing with Rejection (Article)

5 Tips For Overcoming Rejection (Video: 5min)

Comedian Talking About Rejection (Video: 3min)

David Wygant – No Risk Of Rejection (Video Clip: 6min)

Ignore Her Bitch Shield:

Juan Antonio Invites The Girls (Movie Clip: 2min)

Woman Explains The Bitch Shield (Video Clip: 9min)

Score Confidence:

Tony Robbins – Create A New Story (Video Clip: 38min)

Confidence Isn’t Real (Article)

The Ego – Eckhart Tolle (Video Clip: 11min)

Dr. Wayne Dyer – Independent Of The Good Opinion Of Others (Audio/Video 9min)

Yuri – How To Build Confidence And Self Esteem (Video: 8min)

Brian Tracy – Self Confidence (Video: 3 min)

Approach Anxiety (Video: 1min 29sec)

Crash And Burn (Video: 3min)

Score Opinions And Boundaries:

David DeAngelo And Dr. Paul – Boundaries (Video Clip: 11min)


Score Resistance:

Urban Dater – Hoops (Article)

You Must Be The Prize (Video: 15min)



Direct Daytime Dating (Video)

Manwhore Speech (Video)